HALAAL CHICK IN THE CITY

A lot of people say to me, ''don't go looking for it, it will come to you when you least expect it''.....I don't care who says it to me, but it always makes my blood boil!! Why should everything seem to be on the 'Guys' terms?? I always say, so if I am hungry, don't go looking for food, it will come to me???

I once had an introduction with a guy, he seemed ok...a little rigid but I think that was because he had not been in that situation before. Either way I was my usual bubbly self, I thought the introduction had gone well. However the mutual person who had introduced us did not ask me anything and just said as I left, well.....we shall give him two days and come back with a decision. This was said to me as I walked out the front door and I think I was still processing/shocked by that comment. Why was it up to him?? I remember I had to wait flipping two days then they mutual match maker sent me a text message saying that HE did not want to continue, that was it I was not given a say in the matter at all!!!!?!

I have no idea about anything any more.........I was thinking maybe take a South Korean approach......I'm giving up on ways now..........

Here are a few messages I have received, starting with the essay one:

7^th April 2012 – THE DUDE

hi,salam......wanna say many thing but dont know why its not comeing now[may be i m in LOVE],as a matter of fact,i m not comfortable in live chat,,,,,just wanna say that,can we talk directly plZ,,,, thats why can i get ur contract number[may be u can take it negatively,but belive me[by the name of our almighty ALLAH] i hav no another option for talking directly] so that i can tell u what exactly i wanna say 2 u,,,ok,bye now,TAKE CARE,ALLAH-HAFEZ.....

(no reply)

9^th April 2013 – THE DUDE

what happened???u know,last 2 day i was waiting for ur response.i m now working a resturent.today is sunday.i was very busy but all day i was thinking when my work will finish and i'll go up stair & open my laptop just for ur sms.but now i open my laptop & login this site and seeing no response from u......feeling so much bad................u r the number 1 girl hav been given sms by me in this single muslim..........................

(no reply)

12^th April 2012- THE DUDE

hei,sleepy head,r u alive??????some one is waiting for ur response with a great deal of hope & interest....................plZ,say something[at least]..take good care of urself,ALLAH-HAFEZ.....

(I reply)

13^th April 2012 - ME

Salaam ,

Awww, you seem like a very nice guy, but I am afraid I do not think we would be a match. Allah has made someone for you and Inshallah you will find her.

Takecare and good luck with your search!

:)

(his reply)

14^th April 2012 – THE DUDE

do u hav any direct connection or conversation with ALLAH? or u hav any mighty power by god gifted??so how would u know that we r not suiteable for each other?whats the problem with me? many impossible can happen if there is LOVEEE,,,madam its a very strong word..nothing is impossible for this word,,yae,i didn't read ur profile clearly,,after registering this site at first i saw some of girls pic,,after seeing ur picture i fall in LOVE at first sight...whats the problem with me???i m telling u,,,1st--i m not british citizen,,,2nd--i m not a rich u which may be u expecting,,,now listen---i m not british born,that doesn't mean i hav nothing,i m nothing...& i m also here not for red passport[if u think],,i m here just for LLLOOOVVVEEE..now 2nd answer--now i hav no car,house,million pounds,but 1 day i'll b the king of universe inshaALLAH,its not my proud,its my confident & another thing also i hav with me my parents dua,thats enough....i hav registered in this single muslim 6-7 days previous..for ur kind information,already i hav got 17 sms from 11 girls but i didn't give any bodies answer only for u...again saying Only for U.....whats the problem with me???i m from a very educated & RELIGIOUS family.my mother is a QURAN-A-HAFEZ,,,i m the only child of my parents.....yah,i m a very stylist boy,that doesn't mean i havn't ISLAM properly...i know who m i,where i from & where i hav 2 go after death for-ever?...we r high-middle class family but ALLAH gives us respect in socially & peace which is enough for my family................sorry for wasteing ur many valuable times,i forgot that there is no place for this word[LOVE] IN 2012,,,,,,,,,,,POUNDS & red passport is more important now,,,ok,bye,TC,ALLAH-HAFEZ------

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