HI APRIL!!!!!!
Can't pull the wool......(well now cotton T-shirt over my eyes!).
I think as women we are built with an instinctive radar....I think most people call this 'A women's instinct'. ;)
I have laid off the on line dating for a bit and I have however been proactive in talking to the last few I have met last on line.....however when you think you that your are offline and regularly chatting to one person, don't always be fooled......women are great multitasking.....but guys are seen as not good at multitasking......I think when it comes to on-line dating they are definitely are!!!
I was thinking, how had things been before? Arranging a time and place and sticking to that date, writing letters / postcards, picking up the phone and having a conversation, randomly surprising some one by showing up......the simple gestures that where so easy to read with no complications.....my how that has all changed.....seeing when that person was last online on whats app and why did they ignored your message and did not respond, seeing a skinny hot girl they are having a photo comment conversation that comes up in your face (well on your social media wall news feed), seeing their photos on instagram and comments made by other girls......seeing them back online the online dating sites......When did everything go all upside down? You would think with communication being so accessible and easy.....the messages can still be oh so wrong and unclear. All it takes it clear communication where are things going or simply not going?
Has the art and days of being ''Wooed'' now well and truly over? What does it take to think outside the box instead of in the A4 flat screen boxes, or hand held gadgets ones we constantly carry in our hands? Do we have to re-create the art of communication again? I think seeing a hand held written note is so rare these days (I'm sounding like a right old fuddy duddy here!). I just think...these days we really have all been lost in communication...and that's a shame...and I think not just love letters....but even postcards could have an amazing effect and hit the message home with more impact.....I say maybe for a few mins, drop your devices and pic up a pen and write a message, draw a picture.....anything on a paper, post it note, banana (yes I have written messages on Banana's).....whatever you like!!
I think its time for real communication to send the message home, we should take a step backwards in order to go forwards..... :)
As for me....I shall be emptying all my eggs out of my basket for now I think....will be enjoying this spring (with a spring in my step in plenty of new shoes, as a girl can never have too many ;)
But I would say the main important thing is, never limit yourself and you are never foolish for making yourself clear and well....just putting that message out there....even if it is in a bottle ;) xxx
Check the link below too!
http://www.moreloveletters.com/blog/
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